Well, that’s a deep subject, hmm…
My mom is who I should have been relating about all along. And believe me our relationship reaches deep and sometimes murky. I love her to the nth degree, but we are total opposites. Or, maybe we are so alike we butt heads. Only a good counselor (on my part) knows for sure!
My mom can no longer drive due to her license being taken away at age 84 for the safety issue of Macular Degeneration. She can only see through the periphery of each eye. My mom can read with glasses, a magnifier and under full spectrum lighting. My Mom goes about her day as if she is fully sighted, never a complaint about it.
But, what does this have to do with hair?
Determination, focused on a goal of looking good and feeling younger at heart. E.L. has always gotten her hair done early in the day, every 2 weeks before the 60’s hit. Now she goes for a haircut and color every 4 weeks. Now how does she get there? Sorry to say I live in CA and she lives in PA, so I cannot take her to the stylist. Yes, it’s a small town, but it is way too far for her to walk. Can her brother come and take her? Sure, but at 8:30AM, she needs him for more non-routine appointments. Mom has worked her magic to stay feeling young at heart.
So what happened?
Mom’s hairdresser has been picking her up every 4th Thursday on her way to work. And the day before her appointment Mom calls the county bus system to arrange to be picked up at the salon to come home, feeling younger and looking better! Now that’s what I call integrated independance! It takes a village to support us all.
My Conclusion….
- We can never take any body part for granted. Eat, sleep well and exercise mind and body.
- Make lemonade with lemons. You know what I mean.
- Sweeten our life by being lovingly involved in others lives.
- Always find the time to care for our hair and this action will keep us looking and feeling younger!









